Monday, February 10, 2014

Why The Young Adult's Path To Independence Is Challenging

By Saleem Rana


Pam Broker, the founder and director of Milestones for Young Adults in Idaho, a young adult program, spoke to Lon Woodbury and Liz McGhee on Parent Choices for Struggling Teens show on L.A. Talk Radio. She talked about what young adults need to do to grow up and become independent, mature adults. The host of the show, Lon Woodbury is the founder of Woodbury Reports. He has worked with families and struggling teens since 1984. Co-host Elizabeth McGhee is the Director of Admissions and Referral Relations at Sandhill Child Development Center. She has over 19 years of clinical, consulting and referral relations experience. Parent Choices for Struggling Teens is sponsored by Father Flanagan's Boys Town in Nebraska.

About Pamela Broker

Pamela Broker is the owner of a young adult program called Milestones for Youthful Adults. She has worked with adolescents, young adults and their family members for numerous years, including working at no less than 6 different programs in the Northwest as an admissions director.

Challenges on the Young Adult's Road to Self-Reliance

The young adult's path to self-reliance in North America is rife with troubles. The classic path to maturity--which is working, getting married, raising children, and contributing to culture-- is increasingly challenging for today's youths. There are numerous reasons for this dilemma. One is society's impact. It takes longer to get a great education and earn professional credentials. Additionally, most entry level work scarcely pays for the cost of food and shelter and life's necessities. Two is the impact of telecommunication devices. It's possible for a kid to have their needs met vicariously through the Web. Three are over-functioning moms and dads, who are doing everything for their kids. Four are youngster having emotional issues like learning disorders,debilitating physical conditions or addictions and dependencies. However, Pamela also thought that a big part of the problem could just be the youngster's hesitation to leave home. "They are comfortable where they are," she pointed out. "Why would they try to do something completely different? They get money by asking for it, a roof over their head, a cozy bed, and delicious meals.".

Pamela provided a number of pointers for parents: offer children bottom line ordinances, allow them to play the game of life, and permit them to learn from their mistakes if they run out of money. She recommended that parents make it clear to their kids that their child's mayhem is not the parent's. She outlined how parents could get external help from their regional community, from teachers, therapists, and life coaches, and from organizations, groups, and companies devoted to helping young people develop into responsible adults.

Conclusion

The discussion covered the many possibilities about adolescent's "failure to launch." It also covered the adverse effect of helicopter parenting, the distracting influence of telecommunication devices, and the growing alienation experienced in modern culture. Lastly, it touched on how a child's mind does not fully develop up until they are twenty-five years old. Other topics covered were how parenting has actually changed over the last few decades, and exactly what parents can do to help their children grow up and be part of the world.




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